I love Sarasota. It's full of yoga studios, health food stores and people who like to ride bikes. And it's warm. And, it's probably where I'll end up one day, but not today. Well, it IS where I am today, but I mean today in the sense of the general present and not a point in time.
Mid life has one advantage-in the past I would have been tortured because I want to BE in X but I have chosen to live in Y. No torture today-just a quiet knowledge of where I'll probably go next. No hatred for Oklahoma-it's my ancestral home, where I am know, I am spending time with lots of elders at the moment-NOW is the time for that. I have more time than they do (most likely).
Has the calendar ceased to be my mortal enemy?