tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-166466078612863791.post5492473325561704210..comments2023-10-20T10:25:41.260-05:00Comments on Beam Me Up Scotty: Why is being nice so damn hard?Debra Kayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13455047894767524091noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-166466078612863791.post-40454661429087015512008-08-02T17:03:00.000-05:002008-08-02T17:03:00.000-05:00Yes. Picking my battles. I'm shit at picking my ba...Yes. Picking my battles. I'm shit at picking my battles. Something I need to improve on.Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08271504494780200087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-166466078612863791.post-92020965080816699712008-08-02T14:39:00.000-05:002008-08-02T14:39:00.000-05:00In this case it was not just the yielding-but that...In this case it was not just the yielding-but that it took several days of bartering, etc. to fix the mess once I decided to yield. What a pain in the ass.<BR/><BR/>Although-in my great scorebook, I don't blame anyone for the clean up nor even really for the mess either. I couldn't help wanting a motorcycle, the family couldn't help worrying about it-the jeep is a splendid solution.<BR/><BR/>An added benefit is the silence-can you hear it? No talk about what I need or don't need.Debra Kayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13455047894767524091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-166466078612863791.post-35298273267002684402008-08-02T10:40:00.000-05:002008-08-02T10:40:00.000-05:00id depends on what your principles are, sometimes ...id depends on what your principles are, sometimes yielding is bloody hard!growl!soulbrushhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16879115279499153124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-166466078612863791.post-70401710890765114272008-08-01T18:24:00.000-05:002008-08-01T18:24:00.000-05:00I think your method is a good one. It doesn't hur...I think your method is a good one. It doesn't hurt me to yield every now and then.Debra Kayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13455047894767524091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-166466078612863791.post-31628354496928228112008-08-01T16:49:00.000-05:002008-08-01T16:49:00.000-05:00hope it works very well...once i expected my famil...hope it works very well...<BR/><BR/>once i expected my family to change... then i changed my mind and i changed: i started not to expect them to change or to understand me... the result was more respect on their part... and more being 'me' on my part...<BR/><BR/>of course it took a long time...<BR/><BR/>wish you the best....<BR/>lovehuman beinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09232419187783429903noreply@blogger.com